Thursday, December 7, 2017

Big Book List 2017

Here are the books I read in 2017...

FICTION:

SCIENCE FICTION:
Ready Player One
Cline, Ernest

MYSTERY:

NONFICTION/COOKBOOK/MEMOIR:

SPIRITUAL GROWTH:


CHILDREN'S FICTION:

MIDDLE GRADE (Ages 8-12):


YOUNG ADULT:

I would not wholeheartedly recommend each and every book listed.  If you are wondering about one, please ask!  It takes too long to differentiate each one in this format.  Happy Reading, Book Friends!

Recommendations from What I Read in 2017

Here are my favorite books from this year, divided by genre:

FICTION
1.       The High Divide, by Lin Enger
Absorbing family mystery and adventure set in 1886 Minnesota. Delves into what life after the Indian Wars truly meant for a whole family. Themes of journey, fatherhood, trust, manhood, brothers, immigrants, abandonment, violence, racism, buffalo conservation, small towns, guilt, forgiveness and faith. Highly recommend. Especially for fans of Gilead, Lonesome Dove, or Peace Like a River. 
2.       The Shadow of the Wind, by Carlos Ruiz Zafon
Mysterious, captivating, interconnected and dark. The perfect book to read on a flight to Spain. I wish I could go to Barcelona and see everything in person. Couldn't stop thinking about it until it was done!
Themes of longing, fatherhood, evil, passion, and how written stories connect us. The translation from Spanish felt masterful to me. Some moments reminded me of One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. The cultural and reading experience of this book was wonderful. It swept over me like a wave. Warning: it’s magical realism, aka, really weird.
3.       Peace Like a River, by Leif Enger
Story about a boy and his family as they fight danger, befriend strangers, and survive winter in an airstream trailer while looking for a lost family member.
So good it hurts. I had read it before but needed to remember why I loved it so much. (Swede is the best character since Harper Lee’s Scout.) It aches with longing and faith and adventure and asthma.  Just breathe, Beki. 
4.       Crossing to Safety, by Wallace Stegner
I'm so glad I finally read this book! I knew it was a story of four friends. I didn't expect it to be exciting... but the sailing chapter? The camping chapter? The Italy chapter? All were exciting to me! The character development is SUPERB. The story has drive and setting and detail. It goes deep into people's motives and ambitions and the limitations put on them by their suffering. I really liked how attached they were and how much they ultimately loved each other. My favorite is Sally. If you like Louise Penny or Wendell Berry or Annie Dillard - you should try this.
5.       Breathing Lessons, By Anne Tyler
This book is about Maggie and Ira but it's also about a million other things. I loved it and I was uncomfortable with how real it feels, like looking too long in a magnifying mirror. I laughed unexpectedly about every 12 minutes. But overall there is a theme of sadness and the longing for connection. Definitely one of my best reads this year.
"Leroy's expression was cocky and triumphant. Maggie resisted the urge to reach down and cup the complicated small bones of her knee." P. 194

NONFICTION
1.       The Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown
So much to learn about the 1930s. So much to ache about after you learn it. So much to admire. So incredibly astonishing that they did it. Ahhhhhhh. My heart hurts. 
2.       Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy, by Eric Metaxas
Although it took me a LONG time, I'm thankful for this book. It means a lot to me and I'm still figuring out all the reasons why. His book Life Together changed my life in 2004 so I loved seeing his origin story to the concept of communal living. That's one reason. Seeing WW2 from the perspective of a Christian German was FASCINATING.... Ethical impossibilities and church struggles galore! That's a second and third reason. I LOVED hearing about his trip to America where he was disturbed by how black people were treated, and also made connections between church authenticity and suffering. The stories about him and his French friend traveling America together were awesome, because it was right after WW1 and they were supposed to be enemies. I'm going to stop listing highlights but feel like I could go on and on. This book was good for my brain and my heart. I feel encouraged to worship Jesus and love others because of Bonhoeffer's example. 
3.       Lab Girl, by Hope Jahren
One word: VOICE. Hope Jahren has one.
The science details can drag on for me, but her passion for plants and science is very cool and sometimes sad. Her descriptions of growing up in rural MN in the first chapters are my FAVORITE. The tone of the rest of the book is quirky and lovable. 


SPIRITUAL GROWTH
1.       Praise Her in the Gates: The Calling of Christian Motherhood, by Nancy Wilson
Took me some time to get over the cover (and title). But the book itself was packed with unique, practical tips, that I needed. How and why a mother could show respect to her son! Why a clean soul should be reflected in a clean house. How and why a mother should encourage her daughter to be domestic AND educated. Challenging and helpful. Strongly distilled advice for a Christian mom. Fascinating. 
2.       The Scars that have Shaped Me: How God Meets Us in Suffering, by Vaneetha Rendall Risner
Clear and concise truth for the dark times in life. I love how honest she is. She doesn't sugar-coat anything. She talks about the day when she realized that she couldn't get up a sidewalk without asking a stranger for help (because of her degenerative disease) and she is honest about how mad she felt to lose that ability. YET she has iron-clad hope in Christ. Deeply beautiful.
"Our faith is not a facade we erect to convince ourselves and others that pain doesn't hurt-- it is an oak tree that can withstand the storms of doubt and pain in our lives and grow stronger through them." Page 36
3.       Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God, by Timothy Keller
"Adoration and thanksgiving - God centeredness - comes first, because it heals the heart of its self-centeredness." Page 114
Also loved the metaphor on p168 about prayer and a neglected inheritance. "You were actually rich but had been living poor."
Lots to learn here! 
4.       Calm my Anxious Heart: A Woman’s Guide to Finding Contentment, by Linda Dillow
There is a lot of good stuff in here. Chapter six about greed and wealth was huge for me. I read it just as we were remodeling our kitchen and it helped me set my heart on God and be content in a messy process. 
5.       Unsuper Mommy: Release expectations, embrace imperfection, and connect to God’s superpower, by Maggie Combs
Motherhood can be so overwhelming. Questions about HOW to manage the logistics of mom life and WHO I am as a mom are constant for me. I have struggled with unrealistic expectations about motherhood and disappointment in myself and my baby. Instead of staying stuck in that yuck, Maggie shows the path through the mess into the peace of Jesus: we are imperfect and need to rest in God's perfection. Maggie's message of freedom and hope is clear and precious. Her words have been so helpful to me! The chapters about Free Time and Purpose in Life are my absolute favorite.
Maggie offers scripture and encouragement to both a brand-new mom and a seasoned mom. Her words are wise and Christ-centered. I loved this book and will revisit it soon. 


YOUNG ADULT
1.       The Lunar Chronicles (Cinder, Scarlet, Cress, Winter), by Marissa Meyer
Creative, suspenseful and the plot components are so unique and familiar at the same time.  I couldn’t read these fast enough.  Easier than watching tv.  Not deep, but fun.  Technology and career
2.       A Study in Charlotte, by Brittany Cavallaro
Smart and fun sherlock spin-off with teenagers in New England. My kind of summer pool read! 
3.       When You Reach Me, by Rebecca Stead
Great YA blend of friendship, family, city life (latchkey perspective was interesting), with a mysterious twist of plot. Really enjoyed the audiobook. Didn't see the sci-fi element coming but liked it. Glad I've read A Wrinkle in Time because of how the plots wind together. 
4.       Because of Winn-Dixie, by Kate DiCamillo
Sweet and sorrowful story of healing and friendship. Kate DiCamillo is amazing. 
5.       Wonder, by R.J. Palacio
I gave it 5 stars on goodreads - it was that good.  The changing perspectives was what made this book sing for me.  I really liked Auggie and his world, as hard as it was to live in it. Made me feel like a 5th grader again! There were a couple parts that felt too easy in family relationships, but I get that the author is holding up an idea of family and caring parents and I can support that.

READING WITH GWEN
1.       The Children of Noisy Village, by Astrid Lindgren
I read this with Gwen (6yo) and it was pure fun! It's about a girl, Lisa, who lives in a little farming village in Sweden. She has many adventures with her friends. I liked learning about the Swedish holiday celebrations. Seeing them through Lisa's eyes was sweet and Gwen could totally relate. I laughed so hard at the chapter about "helping people." 
2.       Homer Price, by Robert McCloskey
Small town stories with tons of humor and heart. I really loved reading this to Gwen. As soon as it ended she said, "I wanna read it again! Can we read it again?" First time I've gotten that reaction. :) My favorite part was probably the story about the giant balls of string. So much laughter. The chortling kind. 
3.       Little House in the Big Woods, by Laura Ingalls Wilder
Gwen and I loved learning about the world of Laura and Mary… getting her first doll, playing catch with a pig stomach, smoking meat, etc.
4.       Mr. Popper’s Penguins, by Richard and Florence Atwater
Curious how this book was written by a married couple. The writing isn't my favorite, but the ideas are funny. Gwen and I enjoyed it. Tobogganing down the stairs at every chance, these aptly named penguins made me laugh. Mr. Popper is very strange. 


Comprehensive book list, of what I read in 2017, coming soon!

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Books I Read in 2016

Hello! I'm here to share my bookish thoughts from 2016.

My favorite books read in 2016 were:

  • Bel Canto by Ann Patchett
    • Most unusual plot EVER but wonderfully written characters and series of events.  I still miss the characters.  I can almost hear the piano playing.
  • Vinegar Girl by Anne Tyler
    • Bert did not sleep well while I was reading this because I stayed up late shaking with laughter and laughing into my pillow.  It was so funny.  It's a retelling of Shakespeare's The Taming of the Shrew.  I want to re-read it/own it/give it to everyone I know.
  • Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel
    • You figure out the plot as you go, but there is a real sense of danger and awareness of abundance that I loved about it.
  • The Lake House by Kate Morton
    • Deep spiraling family mystery set in an old English house. What's not to love?
  • Gilead by Marilynne Robinson
    • I will forever be laughing about the horse story.  And appreciating what he said about paying attention to the beauty of water and the faces of people you love.  This book made a mark on me.
  • Major Pettigrew's Last Stand by Helen Simonson
    • Probably the most likeable characters (who were certainly not perfect people) that I will read all year.  Major Pettigrew had endeared himself to me by the end of the first chapter and the plot moved nice and quick.  It was not boring!
  • Leepike Ridge by N.D. Wilson
    • Classic adventure.  Stands alone (not as a part of a series but has great depth of character, and an amazing setting.  I love the scene where the mom is walking through the muddy field and her boots keep getting stuck in the mud.

Here is my comprehensive list of books read in 2016:

1. Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling
2. Leepike Ridge by N.D. Wilson
3. Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows by J.K. Rowling
4. L'Abri by Edith Schaeffer
5. The Fellowship of the Ring (The Lord of the Rings #1) by J.R.R. Tolkien
6. Anne of Ingleside (Anne of Green Gables #6) by L.M. Montgomery
7. Spurgeon's Sorrows: Realistic Hope for those who Suffer from Depression by Zack Eswine
8. The Devil in the White City by Erik Larson
9. A Fatal Grace (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #2) by Louise Penny
10. The Lake House by Kate Morton
11. Bel Canto by Ann Patchett
12. Bossypants by Tina Fey
13. For the Love by Jen Hatmaker
14. West Wind by Mary Oliver
15. The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
16. The Two Towers (The Lord of the Rings #2) by J.R.R. Tolkien
17. One Crazy Summer (Gaither Sisters #1) by Rita Williams-Garcia
18. The Return of the King (The Lord of the Rings #3) by J.R.R. Tolkien
19. Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel
20. The Cruelest Month (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #3) by Louise Penny
21. A Rule Against Murder (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #4) by Louise Penny
22. Kitchens of the Great Midwest by J. Ryan Stradal
23. Hood (King Raven #1) by Stephen R. Lawhead
24. Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter
25. Silent in the Grave (Lady Julia Grey #1) by Deanna Raybourn
26. Grit: Passion, Perseverance, and the Science of Success by Angela Duckworth
27. Brooklyn by Colm Toibin
28. Gilead (Gilead #1) by Marilynne Robinson
29. Harry Potter and the Cursed Child by John Tiffany
30. True Beauty by Carolyn Mahaney
31. The Royal We by Heather Cocks
32. Wildflower by Drew Barrymore
33. Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson
34. The Story of My Life by Helen Keller
35. Roomies by Sara Zarr
36. Ben-Hur: A Tale of the Christ by Lew Wallace
37. Vinegar Girl by Anne Tyler
38. The Messenger of Athens by Anne Zouroudi
39. The Green Ember (The Green Ember #1) by S.D. Smith
40. The Forgotten Sisters (Princess Academy #3) by Shannon Hale
41. The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie (Flavia de Luce #1) by Alan Bradley
42. The Brutal Telling (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #5) by Louise Penny
43. Eighty Days: Nellie Bly and Elizabeth Bisland's History-Making Race Around the World by Matthew Goodman
44. The Summer Before the War by Helen Simonson
45. Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art
46. Major Pettigrew's Last Stand by Helen Simonson
47. The Legend of Sam Miracle (Outlaws of Time #1) by N.D. Wilson
48. Raymie Nightingale by Kate DiCamillo
49. Cinder (The Lunar Chronicles #1) by Marissa Meyer
50. Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry
51. The Readers of Broken Wheel Recommend by Katrina Bivald
52. Bury Your Dead (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #6) by Louise Penny

PHEW! That was a lot to type out.  I gave ratings and brief reviews on each of these books on my goodreads.com site, which was a good discipline for me, and might be helpful to view if you want more information on these titles.  You can find me under the name of Daniel and Rebekah Eikum on goodreads.  It's unfortunate that my username can't just be Beki, but alas, it's all permanently linked to amazon.com and such things can't be changed.


  • I re-read The Lord of the Rings series this year for the first time, and it was harder than I remembered it being in high school.  Those books are all-encompassing for the imagination and it takes some effort to stick with the detailed sword names and genealogy lines.  But there are some epic moments and really fantastic characters.  I'm glad I did it, and maybe I'll try again in 10 years when my brain isn't in toddler-raising mode and has more capacity?
  • I finished my Harry Potter re-read this year. I have lots of thoughts. I wrote something about it and maybe I'll share that sometime. 
  • I read eight books this year that are the #1 book in a series. It was unintentional. Some of the series I do not plan to continue: King Raven, Flavia de Luce, Gilead.  Some I WILL definitely read more: Lunar Chronicles, Outlaws of Time).
  • 20 of my 52 books were audiobooks. Two of my all-time favorites were audiobooks, in fact.  Station Eleven and The Lake House.  I loved the English Cornwall accents on the audio for The Lake House. But I want to re-read Station Eleven so I can experience it with my eyes instead of ears.  So fascinating!
  • I've read a lot this year.  More than past years.  I think it's because I've been learning to relish books more than TV.  I have always loved TV, but my husband doesn't love it as much as I do.  Or rather, it makes him more tired instead of more awake.  I used to just stay up late and "watch one more show."  But I realized that was not good for my marriage or good for my unending desire for more TV.  I'm learning the joy of finishing a book and having something in my brain that sticks longer than the plot of the next episode.  Books are not the end-all of my life, but there is something special about the written word.
  • My favorite podcast this year was (not shockingly) What Should I Read Next? by Anne Bogel
  • Louise Penny!  The Chief Inspector Armand Gamache books have been a wonderful part of my year, but I didn't feel like I could put a certain one as a favorite for the year.  They are all interconnected and build upon each other.  I really enjoy her words about regular everyday things like weather and food and personality, and I'm aware on how boring that sounds.  But they aren't boring.  They're thoughtful and smart and quirky and honest.  And now I NEED to go visit Quebec.  I've also had the unusual pleasure of reading each book at the same time of year that it's set in (ie: read the Cruelest Month in the month of April, and it's about the month of April) which has been so fun.  Not many books can fully capture what a frigid winter season feels like, but these ones do.  Sigh.  If only I had a chocolate croissant and mug of steaming coffee in an armchair next to a roaring fire...that's the impact of Louise Penny.
  • Ben-Hur was probably my most ambitious read of the year because the language is old and takes some getting used to.  It helped to listen to part of it on audiobook.  Overall, I really, really liked it.  It was exciting to follow an unfamiliar story through the familiar time of Christ.  The details about the feast at Ben-Hur's house and the wise men meeting for Jesus's birth were super neat. The betrayals and battles with leprosy were intense.  I saw the recent movie remake and it did the chariot scenes really well, but the ending was all wrong from the book.  I would recommend this book to anyone feeling up for the challenge.  It was good.


Some of the best books read this year with my kids were:

With Gwen (5 years old):
  • The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White
  • My Father's Dragon series by Ruth Stiles Gannett
  • Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl
  • The Mouse and the Motorcycle by Beverly Cleary
  • James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl
  • Stories From Grandma's Attic by Arleta Richardson
  • Bink and Gollie by Kate Dicamillo
  • The Princess in Black by Shannon Hale
  • The Mercy Watson series by Kate Dicamillo
  • Charlotte's Web by E.B. White (Bert read with Gwen)
  • Stuart Little by E.B. White (Bert read with Gwen)
  • The Bears on Hemlock Mountain by Alice Dalgiesh
  • some Magic Treehouse series
  • some Cam Jensen series
  • some Boxcar Children series
  • some A to Z Mysteries series





With Simon (2-3 years old):
  • Curious George stories in the style of H.A. Rey
  • Laura Numeroff books
    • What Mommies/Daddies do best
    • What Grandmas/Grandpas do best
    • What Aunts/Uncles do best
    • When You Give a Mouse a Cookie
    • When You Take a Mouse to School
  • Knuffle Bunny and Knuffle Bunny Too by Mo Willems
  • Little Critter books by Mercer Mayer
  • Elephant and Piggie books by Mo Willems
    • There's a Bird on Your Head
  • Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus by Mo Willems
  • Edwina: The Dinosaur who didn't know she was Extinct by Mo Willems... seeing a Mo Willems theme here!?!



Friday, January 1, 2016

Books I Read in 2015

This is my second year of tracking the books I've read throughout the year. Book series have taken over 12 of my 32 books this year, so I've spent a lot of time with a few choice characters -I'm looking at you Anne, Harry and Tris. 

Thoughts on Anne books:
I've been inspired by Anne.  I especially love her enjoyment of trees and her stubborn will to befriend crabby people.  Listening to the first couple books on audiobook was gold, because the plots were already familiar from the movies and were filled with unexpected humor.  I had to stop doing audiobooks at Anne of the Island because I didn't want the good love story parts to go too quickly, and I LOVED Anne's description of college and those uniquely diverse friendships. Each Anne book feels slow at the beginning as I try to discern what kind of story arc will come.  Inevitably at the end of each book I'm so attached to the setting and characters that I'm sad it's over.  I still have three books left in the series, which will definitely be a part of my 2016 reading.

Thoughts on Re-reading Harry Potter:
The first time I read HP I definitely rushed to see what was going to happen, and it's really nice to take my time through interesting details and connections during this re-read.  The creativity and side characters are a lot of fun. The second time through I'm finding extra affection for Hagrid and McGonagall, who are present in the movies but even more present in the books.  Sigh.  And Ginny in the books is so much spicier than the movie version.  One more book to go here...

Thoughts on Tris (from the Divergent series, Mom):
Ugh. Well. She inspired me to try the ropes course at the Mall of America.  And in general, I love that she's strong and willing to face her fears.  A lot of other things about these books and Tris's character were frustrating but I read them so I can be informed about the movies.  I thought the movie Insurgent was actually way better than the book, and completely different than the book.  So, whatever.

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, by J.K. Rowling
The Last Battle, by C.S. Lewis
In the Heart of the Sea: The Tragedy of the Whaleship Essex, by Nathaniel Philbrick
Gone Girl, by Gillian Flynn
Young House Love, by Sherry and John Petersik
A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael, by Elizabeth Elliot
Unbroken, by Laura Hildebrand
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, by J.K. Rowling
The Imperfectionists, by Tom Rachman
Where'd You Go, Bernadette? by Maria Semple
Letters to My Children, by Daniel Taylor
Veronica Mars: Mr. Kiss and Tell, by Jennifer Graham and Rob Thomas*
Insurgent, by Veronica Roth
Caddie Woodlawn, by Carol Ryrie Brink
Anne of Green Gables, by Lucy Maud Montgomery*
Allegiant, by Veronica Roth
Anne of Avonlea, by Lucy Maud Montgomery*
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, by Marie Kondo
Mr. Penumbra's 24-hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan*
Daring Greatly, by Brene Brown
Something Fresh, by P.G. Wodehouse*
Paper Towns, by John Green
Still Life, by Louise Penny*
All the Light We Cannot See, by Anthony Doeer
Anne of the Island, by Lucy Maud Montgomery
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, by Betty Smith*
Anne of Windy Poplars, by Lucy Maud Montgomery
Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, by J.K. Rowling
Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie*
Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix by J.K. Rowling*
The Martian, by Andy Weir
Anne's House of Dreams, by Lucy Maud Montgomery
Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince, by J.K. Rowling

*Audiobook through Audible

Worst, most horrible and gross book: Gone Girl 
Best History: In the Heart of the Sea & Unbroken (lots of starving on life rafts all around!)
Most Delightful and Light-hearted: Caddie Woodlawn (it helps that I read it floating in the pool) and Where'd You Go Bernadette and Something Fresh (which I listened to while vacuuming the pool)
Strangest: Mr Penumbra's 24-hour Bookstore
Most Socially Conscious: Americanah (learned about the important feeling of "choicelessness" and how American's tend to take tomorrow for granted - also the audio accents were beautiful)
Most Teeny-Bopper: Paper Towns (little too disillusioned for me) and Insurgent/Allegiant
Spiritually Encouraging: The Last Battle & A Chance to Die
Meatiest and SO WORTH IT: All the Light We Cannot See & A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

I'm looking forward to more Louise Penny mystery books in the coming year, Still Life was good, but I've been told they get amazing around the 4th book in the series.

My Audible subscription supplies me with one book per month, which helps provide excitement to wash dishes, vacuum the pool and pick up the house.  That's become my recharge introvert time.  Another series I want to re-read is the Lord of the Rings - so the Fellowship of the Ring is my next audiobook.

Other notable reading resources:
1. http://www.hclib.org/ Reserving books online, and picking them up at my library
2. Modern Mrs Darcy's Summer Reading List
3. Read-Aloud Revival Podcast

Here's to enjoying books in 2016! Please comment with any recommendations!

P.S.
Our favorite TV shows of 2015 were probably:
Longmire
Broadchurch
Parks & Rec
Brooklyn 99
Survivor & Amazing Race
Fixer Upper

P.S.S.
I've recently started reading chapter books out loud with Gwen before her afternoon quiet time.  Our first book was Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle by Betty McDonald which made her laugh but I thought was just ok.  We've also started and set aside: The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White, Winnie the Pooh by A.A. Milne, and Paddington by Michael Bond.  Right now we're devouring My Father's Dragon by Ruth Stiles Gannett which is just perfect (thanks Aunt Jill!) and we will definitely finish it.

Here are some of my favorite books for Simon:
Trucks, Planes, Boats, Trains all by Byron Barton *love these!
The Napping House by Audrey and Don Wood
Quiet, Loud and Big, Little by Leslie Patricelli
The Going to Bed Book and Moo, Baa, La, La, La by Sandra Boynton